Addressing Period Stigma
By: Madeline Riske // February 2025
In an age of rapid information sharing and growing openness about our bodies, does period stigma still hinder menstruators from accessing products and having crucial conversations about their health? We created an anonymous survey to find out. Half of our respondents had an undergraduate education or higher, 24% were in high school, and 18% in middle school. A majority of responders came from urban areas, with 24% in more rural areas.
Period stigma is defined as the feeling of shame and hesitation to discuss periods. According to Kotex, “too often, when we do dare to have conversations about menstruation, they center on disgust, discomfort or inconvenience. These perceptions can lead people to wrongly believe that periods are somehow abnormal or problematic, rather than a mark of health and wellness.” This sentiment is reflected in our survey’s responses; respondents report that having a period makes them feel ‘less than.’ “When I was menstruating, it was communicated at that time that there were things you either couldn’t or shouldn’t do,” such as sports or social events. Another respondent stated, “when I was younger, I was self-conscious about [my period] and would hate having it during school. I would hide products so that boys wouldn’t see them, and I would be scared to open packaging in the bathroom.” As they grew older, many respondents reported feeling more comfortable discussing menstruation and using period supplies. However, period stigma continues to significantly affect younger menstruators, often making them feel ashamed to talk about natural bodily functions and fearful to ask for the products they need.

Looking at our survey’s chart depicting the comfort levels menstruators feel when discussing their periods, a majority of respondents feel fairly comfortable talking about their periods. The reality is that many menstruators have no choice but to talk about their periods when they significantly impact their daily lives. One respondent said, “I have always had really heavy and painful periods and by the time I turned 15 I needed to see a doctor about it, so it wasn’t really an option for me not to talk to anyone because I had to have my mom schedule the appointment and take me to the OBGYN.” Yet, despite this necessity, there is still a hesitancy to discuss periods with certain people:

About 80% of those surveyed feel comfortable talking to family and friends about their period, but only 42% feel comfortable talking with peers or classmates, compared with the 18% who feel comfortable discussing their period with a teacher. As one respondent explained, “I am comfortable talking about my period but I am aware that others may be uncomfortable so that is the only thing that stops me from being as open. If I see that others are as comfortable as I am, I am an open book about anything and everything.” This pattern of a response from menstruators raises an essential question: if students are being forced to navigate this balance between personal comfort and social dynamics surrounding periods, is this stigma preventing people from getting access to the products at school that they need?

Half of surveyors stated that period stigma has in fact prevented them from getting access to products: “I never felt comfortable talking to other people when I needed products so I would just use whatever I could find until I could go home.” Period stigma can lead to avoidance and improvised solutions instead of requesting necessary supplies, despite the fact that menstruation is a completely normal and healthy bodily function. As one respondent put it, menstruators should not be embarrassed because “buying pads and tampons are no different from buying bandaids.” There is a definite sense of support and pride between menstruators, “I love knowing that I get my period regularly and it’s a sign that my body is performing the way it should. I buy period products regularly for myself and for others.” However, change can be made by how non-menstruators and influential figures—such as teachers—create a safe and supportive environment for students’ personal safety and hygiene.

If over half of those surveyed have felt judged because of their period, how can this issue be addressed? How can a natural bodily function become socially normalized? According to the survey, 73% of respondents believe periods should be discussed in classrooms, while 63% think incorporating conversations about menstruation into everyday life—through discussions, advocacy, and media like posters and blogs—could help break the stigma. Respondents emphasized the need to debunk harmful stereotypes and misconceptions, such as:
- That Premenstrual Syndrome (PMS) is not real or that it just makes girls crazy and emotional
- That it’s gross
- That your cycle is just the time of your actual period, when it lasts all month
- That they fully dictate your mood and control you
The issue of period stigma is best addressed by listening to those affected and understanding how institutions like governments and schools can support them in accessing both essential products and open discussions about menstrual health. Respondents suggested that schools can assist their menstruating students by “talking about [periods] as a normal human process and not as something that is gross or shameful” and “providing free period products in all bathrooms, not just women’s.” The overarching goal of breaking the stigma surrounding periods can be achieved by normalizing conversations about menstruation and addressing the needs of students.
Love For Red’s mission is to ignite and sustain conversations about menstruation and personal health. Our survey reveals that while menstruators are open to discussing their bodies, they need supportive environments and people to uplift them in this natural process. We hope that our efforts to provide Iowa schools with period products also inspire these schools to foster open and informed discussions. Our goal is for the desire of menstruators to address period stigma to extend beyond this survey and be reflected in all the spaces they engage with.
Sources:
https://www.ubykotex.com/en-us/resources/period-stigma/what-is-period-stigma
Survey sent out by Love For Red